Most Helpful Guy
It was a girl who just came on so strong to me in ways that took me back. On our first date she was already asking when I was born and looking up our horoscope for marriage compatibility right in front of me and showing the results that said we were so compatible for marriage.
Then after that she lived far away, over an hour, and we couldn't meet so much but she kept sending me selfies of her face like 3 times a day. And at first I thought it was cute but it was starting to feel really weird.
She then asked me for my picture so that she could have something to always remember me by and I sent her my picture. We met for a second date and she had my picture as her cell phone background.
After that I just texted her and said I'm so sorry, I'm really getting busy lately and might not have time to talk to her so much and the distance was making things really difficult for me.
I then never replied to her. I just didn't know how to break it to her more directly than that. She was just creeping me out too much. It was immature and I wish I just told her I wasn't interested in hindsight. I just didn't know how to deal with that at the time.
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Most Helpful Girl
I've only ever ghosted once which was last year... but I don't even know if it's considered ghosting. I met a guy out in a bar, we exchanged numbers (because my friends pushed me to). He text me saying to get home safe, I replied with 'thank you blah blah blah' and then the next day he asked me out and I never replied. I just couldn't be bothered. I thought to myself 'I don't even know him, I'm not interested' so I just left it.