i fell in love with one of my best male friends and there were quite some moments where i thought he likes me too. he studies with me but he's super afraid of rejection and never asks girls out and he hardly had any girlfriends. 2 weeks ago or so i asked him if he has ever seen me more than a friend because i had a walk with a guy and i had to think of him (it was online because we are in 2 different cities now for 2 months and yeah i know it's not a big confession but it still came surprisingly for him), he said "it would be best if i am completely honest, right? no" and the next day he was like "i am sorry it came so surprisingly that i didn't know what else to answer, it doesn't have to be awkward now, we can talk about anything" he wants to be a consultant soon which means he will only be in the city for weekends, i love him from the bottom of my heart, i can talk with him about anything and he is always very open and talks about feelings with me, so i don't know how to get over him?
How to get over your crush when he's your best friend?
What Guys Said 3
Realize a crush is just a fantasy and dream you build up with little mutual participation on his part (not even going on a date together, never having kissed, etc.)
If you want to recover from a shattered dream then easiest way is to build new ones. It doesn't have to be around guys even. All you have to do is be passionate about something that motivates you every day when you wake up.0
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With your situation.. You're fucked my friend. You either repress it or show those feelings0
This will ve friendzone0
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