my ex ended with me seven months ago, out of nowhere didn't see it coming at all.. she was the love of my life and I did everything for her.. within a matter of weeks she was seeing a guy this new guy who is an ex junkie.. then about a month later she asked me to meet go for drinks etc. we met she told me she still loved me and missed me we slept together etc and I was really keen to see if we could try again... about a week later she changed her mind and told me it isn't what she wanted. I later found out she had been lying about the junkie guy after her telling me for a while they were 'just friends' immediately after that I blocked her on everything and didn't speak to her for nearly two months. She then got back in touch and asked me if we could meet for a drink etc. I did but this time was a lot more weary gave her space didn't push things.. again about a week after she changed her mind told me she didn't see a future and im still pretty sure she's still seeing that guy.
Its left me feeling depressed and useless.. I tried everything I could, never did anything obviously wrong always treated her as best as possible and in exchange she's messed me around and caused me to be depressed for six months.
I can't understand why someone would treat someone like that, someone they were so close to for several years.. its almost like people have no morals and its left me in a state of not even wanting to date again because in many ways she was the one for me and no one seems to compare..
Really struggling any advice or words or wisdom appreciated
Most Helpful Girl
Well, first let me express my empathy for you. People can be rude and there's no excuse for it. She obviously doesn't care to treat you with the respect a person deserves. She comes back because you've in someways have become a safety net for her.
You need to understand that this is a simple case of her insecurities and her lack of self worth. This isn't preventable because that's just how she seems to be programmed. Keep your head up because there are many women out there to give you the time and values you deserve.1
Most Helpful Guy
You really deserve a happy, Loyal romantic relationship bro, always tell yourself that. Let that inept daddy issue go1