Guys, how do you know you're over her?

or if you're still trying to get over her, what do you do? and you see her a lot like everyday.

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But what if he still keeps on talking to me everyday, hanging out with me by my desk, even added me on Facebook after I deleted him...and still says I miss you so much and ask for hugs a lot... even gave me a long kiss on the cheek from behind.. -
fyi, he was never my boyfriend just an admirer/friend and he is actually with another girl... yet he still went after me emailing me daily, hanging out with me and walking me to my car... if he wasn't my friend, I won't let him chill with me.
he said he loves me and he wants to be with me rather than her but I said I cant...I'm taken even before he even confessed to me. so that sort of backed him off and I asked him the other day if he still likes me. he said I'm not really over you. :(
i think he is already over me... :( that's fine. thanks guys... its crazy but maybe I miss his attention... he doesn't give me that much anymore... why would guys say I love you over and over and I don't feel it? :(
does driving by my haus 2 days and a row or maybe more count as he is over me?

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  • I don't think you CAN get over someone if you have to see them every day, to be honest. That's why usually workplace romances turn out to be a disaster..one or both people have to leave their job.

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  • to answer your initial question, I know I'm over someone when I don't catch myself secretly hoping and planning that reunion where she comes running back in tears breaking down and telling me it was all a huge mistake or some other crazy fantasy and I can hold a conversation with her without the awkwardness

    what you describe in your updates shows that he isnt, as the others already quite clearly put it

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  • Have you heard of Leo Tolstoy? Russian author, 1828 - 1910. Anyway, he wrote something like -- You either love someone forever or you don't love them at all. Meaning you ought not to ever 'get over' someone. It's a vacant fallacy. There's no truth to it.

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    • Im sorry but I'm confused.. sorry I'm slow..;)

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    • Well he said he still loves me and would want to be there for me in my life no matter what happens.

    • Well yeah, that makes sense.

  • Time. Eventually the feeling fades. You lose feelings for the person and they just become ordinary, nothing special like they once were.

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    • But how do you show it to her tho? like you see her a lot and the feelins are still fresh..if they were even true

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    • But he's doing otherwise. ??

    • Then the feelings are still there and he hasn't gotten over you yet.

  • A lot of guys are emotionally invalid in their youth. They just undergo too much trauma and have to shut down indefinitely. It was the same with me -- I forgot that emotions were even possible until last year.

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  • If I were him, I wouldn't behave the way he is. It looks like he misses being with you, but in order for it to be over, he has to just get on with his day and give you space. Otherwise it doesn't really sound like you guys broke up.

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    • I deleted him on Facebook twice already but always beg me to take him back...but because he is my friend, I had to take him back.. my man knows he is into me long time ago... and he even told his girlfriend he will leave her for me once I become single... no wonder his girlfriend gave me cold shoulder that last time we met. I didn't do anything to her... so does this mean I shud cut all communication once and for all?

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  • Time heals everything

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