Most Helpful Guy
Instead of allowing your heart and emotions to dictate your choices, decide to end this affair. yes, it’ll hurt. yes, you’ll think about him all the time. but you can be free from the compulsion to see this married man. may you find yourself quickly and free from the bondage of this affair. end your suffering, move forward in freshness and light.
maybe you’ve invested time, emotional energy, or even money in the affair. maybe you hope he’ll leave his wife and marry you... no matter how low yourself-esteem was... you need to move on.
I'm sure many people here will be happy with your friendship (you're not alone)
Most Helpful Girl
Tell him goodbye. That isn't fair to him or his wife. Don't see him anymore. Go out and meet new people. He is already taken.