Long story short after the break up, I gave her some space and about a week to cool off and think..
A week later I contact her but never mentioned to her that I missed her or anything of that nature and she was thankful that I reached out, even said "thank you for this talk"
The following two days later I reach out again and it went even better! This time towards the end of the night she mentioned to me how she misses me and it caught me off guard! So I tell her I feel the same and we end the night
.. now this is where everything gets weird, the day after that I said goodmorning and we're talking happy as usual, but I have a sense that she feels dumb for opening up to me the night before because today she seems a bit drier then usual with the text, so I tell her hey is okay if I reach out to you later? And she says yes it's okay (: ... so 6 hours later I reach out and she replies with "I don't think we should be friends, I get too attached to you and I don't want too" so I proceed to ask "what's wrong with being friends"...
I regret ever asking this becuase she starts bringing up our past how bad I would treat her, how I would come home and argue w her, how I didn't let her really do much, how I was just a bad person, And so we argue as I'm trying to let her know things will be different and she completely stops opening my messages and ignores me. (Back to square one)
Finally the following day after that, I try to apologize for the argument and tell her "whenever your ready to talk I'll be here (:"
And she replies "pls leave me alone I'm going to ask you once" and I reply with "alright I will give u what u want, peace" .. and haven't spoken to her once after that last message.. it's been about a week and 2 days since we last spoke.. what do u suppose I do to get this girl back? The feelings are still there I know it Forsure. I just know she's scared to fall back in love and get hurt all over again after giving me so many chances..
How would I get this girl back?
People often marry for the wedding and fail the marriage. What contributes to this? My boyfriend said he’d kill me if I cheated on him? Why would someone who broke up with you try to make you jealous? My girlfriend of 3 years told me she said and did mean things to me just to hurt me. Do girls like to hurt guys and play with their heart? He dumped me because he think I’m out of his league. how can I convince him that I don’t care?
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Maybe she shouldn't date you again though.0
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