I started dating this guy two years ago. Unbeknownst to me the first year we were together he saw and slept with numerous other women. All the while in which he has told me I was the love of his life and he wants to marry me etc. I caught on to his web of lies he got rid of his other partners and had a come to Jesus meeting with me. He asked me to forgive him and said he'd never hurt me again, couldn't live without me that he was very much in love with me. Being crazy about him I forgave him. a year later he's made good on his promise except one of his ex girlfriends and he continue to have conversations via text and phone calls. He says she's just a great friend whom he loves but by no means is he in love with her that he's in love with me. Meanwhile this woman emails me and says hurtful things to me. She actually asked me how I'd feel if he was at her place Fu**ing like rabbits one weekend how would I feel? Seems to me that she's just hanging in the background so if my boyfriend and I break up she'll be first in line. She also trys to meet him and doesn't invite me so as she put it "can laugh and play with him without me being there to make sure nothing inappropriate is going on." She also told me she is in a relationship with and loves my boyfriend and is attracted to him and that they would be having sex but don't out of respect for me. Apparently they both think it's not inappropriate to have the relationship they have. Any time I've mentioned to him the things she says to me he acts like I'm an idiot for being upset about it that he's in love with me etc. Regardless their constant communication feels hurtful to me. I'm guessing it wouldn't had she not been one of his former lovers. He swears that he's not cheating or acting inappropriate with her. I feel like it's an emotional affair he has with her. Time to walk away? Am I over reacting? He spends all his time with me but she always knows what's going on.