awhile back when I was younger my mom got caught cheating on my dad. My mom regretted it and she stopped.
After about 8 years things slowly went back to normal..
My dad opened up his own business, and started coming home late from "work". He hardly was home. We hardly went out as a family.
My mom then caught him cheating. My mom was being very impulsive and was telling my dads girlfriend stuff and the girlfriend was laughing at my moms
face. My mom was willing to give my dad a chance, but he continued to see his girlfriend.
So now they are divorced.
I live a couple hours away from home with my older sister because I'm attending a university.
My dad came up to pick up my car, so it got wrecked. We offered my dad to stay with us and he said no since he will be bringing his girlfriend...
he wanted us to meet her, and her daughter.
i don't know what the right thing to do is?
I don't think I should get involved and meet her daughter. But my dad thinks I'm being rude
Most Helpful Guy
Well, he has the right to his relationship. You have the right to feel the way you do, also. Still, it isn't the daughter's fault that her mom is involved with your dad. She could be just as upset as you are. you are both in the middle on this. You may find comfort being friendly with her.
Most Helpful Girl
That's an awful situation to be in. I can imagine how frustrating and hurtful that must be for you.
This has to be your decision. Do what you feel is best for you. Although your dad has a right to do as he pleases, so do you. He made his choice , but you shouldn't feel forced to accept it. Your dad can't expect you to welcome her with open arms , considering all the history and background of the entire situation
I hope whatever decision you make you are happy with your choice ❤