I fell in love with a man who I never expected to. But he left me to be with someone else And than tried to come back. But I was in so much pain due to my breakup and than finding out he was trying to get with someone else. That I never looked back. I completely shut him out and ran.
But I am in so much pain and can't get over him. I've kept busy, been with friends, family, even picked up a new hobby. Yet he is constantly on my mind and sometimes my chest hurts deeply that I breakdown and cry.
I had a friend said to try dating because it's been a year or even go out and have sex, but I cannot do it. This man is everywhere! Help :(
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I guess the real question is whats keeping you from truly grieving your loss?
pain is pain and each person's process is different. so never let anyone dictate yours for you.
secondly, if you just distract, you'll never process and this become stuck. sometimes the only way out is the path going through. give yourself permission to feel, let your pain run its course and while never completely the same, you'll definitely be better and stronger for it *hug*0
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