I have my doubts. He's hit me multiple times but always says he loves me after and that sometimes I just ask for it because I was patronizing him. There's no doubt in my mind that I'm in love with him and don't tell me I don't know what love is. Plus I know this isn't healthy but I can't stay mad or be away from him.
Most Helpful Guy
he's controlling you an manipulating you into thinking this way. I bet he never did in the beginning of your relationship. I bet he was nice and sweet and a true gentlemen. Well now he's showing his true colors. You should seek those who've been in similar situations. You are in love with the old him and think he can change. High chance he won't ever change.3
Most Helpful Girl
classic case of abuse. get out now! it will get worse. he's using you to feel power over you. that is not love. love is considering the other's needs and wanting to empower them to be the best person they can be in this world. instead he is keeping you hostage because you think you can't leave him. his manipulation is working on you already since you are still there! he doesn't love you. he loves power and control over you. would you want your daughter to be controlled, abused and disrespectful by a man too?