Most Helpful Guy
It might be difficult but you need to try and remember you alone are a great person. You don't need anyone else to enjoy yourself and no one can say otherwise. After a breakup you need to get used to not depending on someone else anymore for anything. Don't need someone else to tell you you're smart beautiful and all round amazing. Remember the things that make you who you are and retain your individual life apart from relationships.
Most Helpful Girl
I'm not single, but found when I was, that working on me made me feel better. Whether it be working out, finally doing that project I wanted. Joining a hobby class. ( I know you said you didn't know if you needed that) oh and learn something new. I learned how to make quilts before I met my now husband