Most Helpful Girl
Wow I'm in the exact same situation but the other way round. I've been with my boyfriends for 9 months. After about 4 he told me he suffered with depression and he is majorly insecure from being cheated on in the past. I've tried to say things to him and admit to him that I'm not treating him right, he deserves better and I can't give him all my attention. But he says the same "you're the only girl I ever seen a future with", "I can't imagine my life without you", "we can work through it". I then you're lying at home in bed knowing what you have to do... but still can't do it, it's horrible :(
Most Helpful Guy
Sometimes you have to bite the bullet and just be honest. You are not responsible for how she acts when you do. That is on her. Be nice and tell her the truth. Then you leave. That is much better than texting or emailing her. Do not let her get you into an argument or talk you into staying. She may say she'll quit, but that is who she is. Remember, you are doing the right thing. If she keeps trying to talk you out of it or tries to argue, tell her you wanted to tell her in person and now that you have you told her, you are leaving. Block her on any social media sites you use. Block her on your phone. She may get pissed, but, again, you are not responsible for that. Block her on email as well. She'll get over it. Remember, you are not being mean. You are handling this the proper way. I hope this helps you.