Most Helpful Guy
You have the right to be upset. On the other hand, while I think he... could have handled this much, much better, i'm prepared to chalk it up to ignorance. He's not perfect. He sometimes responds wrong. He sometimes may get upset. Just like you.
If he's normally a decent guy, just recognize he may not understand fully, but is any case supportive and go with it.
If this is just one more case of him being an asshole, that would be something different.
Also good luck with your loss. I'm dropping weight right now too, sucks but its working so hey.
Most Helpful Girl
he's an ass, and you definitely have the right to be upset.
if you have a shred of self-respect, lose this loser asap.