Why its been six months since my ex dumped me and I still miss her?

I dont know why i think about her everyday, she was really mean and disrespected me a lot, she dumped me when I had no money to buy her food (maybe was her excuse), i never replied to her ever even tho after that she tried to get in touch with me but just messing around in my dm and never apologizing so i just never replied.

She then told her mom to hit me up to try to get my number for her but i told her mom to tell her that thats not happening.

Thats no effort at all and I don't know why she deleted my number since i didn't do anything to her.

Well, that was in September of last year and till this day i fee angry for everything she put me through, i lost my job, and since im in a new city i dont even have friends.


Most Helpful Girl

  • 1. You said you feel angry for everything she put you through especially you lost your job.
    2. You said you miss her. Do you miss her just bugging you, annoying you, and hurting your feelings? Because I tend to miss old friends that would tease me. My fiance misses me and still loves me no matter if I pick on him many times.
    3. Do you think you still have feelings for her?
    4. Do you think she wants you back?
    5. Do you think she could have a bipolar disorder? Because I'm kinda like that. I get mad, sad, etc. out of nowhere and put it on someone like

    • Like my fiance.

    • I still have feelings for her and I miss the old her and the way she used to be with me.

Most Helpful Guy

  • You are self-hating or do not love yourself. You moved and now, you need to pick up the pieces and move on. Focus on helping yourself.


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What Girls Said 1

  • I'm sorry to hear that you have to think about her everyday. There are so many others out there that are going through the same problem and can't forget the past. The only issue with that is that you forget to live in the present and rather enyoing your life you continuously focus on the negative parts of what happened in the past. I know its not easy but you need to focus on what's best for you and find a way that makes you happy! Good luck 😊

    • Thank you, and yeah its been tough, i guess i really did love her more than she did

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    • Hey, yeah Im feeling better, sometimes I get caught up in the what ifs and such because I never replied to her, but she easily gave up so 🤷🏻‍♂️ .. How are you doing?

    • I'm doing good... trying to figure out a few things myself but that will surely take some more time.

What Guys Said 1

  • Forgot her... Obession is not a healthy way of life. Please go find a new job and move on! And it takes time to find new friends too.


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