My ex who I was with over a year in a serious relationship left me on Monday. I think he is in a bad space as he was very emotional about it (crying, deactivating his FB etc). I went no contact immediately like any smart person and today he reached out to me again on the game we play together League Of Legends (it's almost like Dota). He invited me to 2 games which we played and he also talked to me asking me about my car, my work etc. He eventually said I must send him my bank details because he wants to send me money he owed me. I whatsapped him my details and we talked a little bit on there as well. He also asked me randomly if he left his black jeans at my place.
I'm trying to understand why a guy who claims to have no feelings for me would want to still talk to me. After he broke up with me, we talked on the phone once where he pretty much gave me the closure I needed so it wasn't like any more contact was technically needed. He also failed to mention my clothes that are still at his place. I'd think he'd want me to come get my things but no word on that yet either.
I'm absolutely in love with him and will do anything to win him back so I'm trying to see if there's any hope whatsoever :( And if there is, I'd like to know what I can do about it.
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If you'd like to repairs things than go for it... he has to know how you feel about it and how much you miss him.
No guarantee it will help to make him come back. But nevertheless there's always a chance that it was in an emotional moment he left you and he's already sorry but doesn't dare to tell you.
Maybe propose to come get your clothes and tell him you'd also like to have 10 min of his time to really understand what happened and why. Talking could be the first step :D0
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