We dated for 8 months... About 3 wks ago all we did was fight.. Last Thursday I came over and there was a girl with him in the room. I left right away to calm down. I came back after an hr n got my stuff. He was just lying and staring didn't say anything. No sorry no explanation. He tried to stop me but he wasn't saying anything. I had to ask the girl to step out while I get my stuff. I feel like If i stay that i will look desperate and no self respect in front of them. she's 20 n he's 40. I mean she could be his daughter.. Im so hurt.. I looked at his fb n she's all over the page. Can a guy move on that quick? I mean how can he do this after all weve been through? Im having a hard time moving on.
Most Helpful Guy
End of the day one person will always move on faster than the other. And the reasons might not be as black and white as you imagine... try and see things from his point of view... he probably just wants to enjoy life, sex, relationship and if that will be done better with he younger girl then can you blame him? It's doubtful he's actually looking to hurt you1
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Most Helpful Girl
She might just be his rebound; maybe he's trying to prove to the world that he's moved on so that his own ego isn't hurt, by having her on his fb page. Either way, even though it's hard, I think it would be best to move on from him. Especially because he didn't even apologize. Sounds like you deserve someone better.1