So my ex and I work together we see each other all the time it's been over 3 weeks since I caught her cheating and ever since then I've been ignoring her at work and she's been doing the same. Usually we see each other pass in the hallway and such and that's it. No eye contact no hellos. Should I say hi or good afternoon to her or continue to ignore her?
She talked to my buddy last week at work and he relayed the message to me and she admitted that she slept with another guy even though her and I was exclusive! And she said she still cares about me lol... doubt that.
She's in the wrong not me she's the liar and cheater or should I not give her any of that satisfaction of attention by saying hello? It is the work place so I should act professional...
Most Helpful Girl
If she cheated on you, she hurt you and that's not something she should expect to be able to push aside anytime soon. I would do the same thing if I were you. There's really no reason for you to talk with her if things are tense with you two. Plus, you need some time to heal and recover from it.
I think her guilt is catching up to her quickly. She probably wants to appologize and talk it over with you about why she did cheat. In the workplace I can understand having to talk with her, keep it casual and buisness oriented only. Once you're outside of work, it's up to you. If you want to hear what she has to say, then by all means let her know you want to discuss the issue.
If it's possible, you could also request different shift from hers at work, so you don't have to work with her each day. Or perhaps venturing somewhere else, so you don't have to see her and be around her constantly.
I had an issue with one of my employees at my old job, it was a retail workplace and there was a ton of bullying behind the scenes. I got fed up with it and because I couldn't handle the constant stress, so I went to my employer and worked something out.
I hope you are able to do the same.
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Most Helpful Guy
Dont chase that hoe. Let a hoe be a hoe. Let her go2