Most Helpful Guy
From a relationship coaching lens, here are my thoughts.
1) You have chosen the best person for yourself based on what you knew about yourself, about them, and about your life at the time. The same goes for 'they were perfect for you', you need to add 'at the time' at the end of that.
2) We very often overuse our heart at the expense of our head. In this, we move very quickly from seeing someone to getting to know them BUT we were often don't really get to know THEM. We know surface things about them and yet at the time, we thought that they were the best person for us.
3) We often times do not know ourselves enough to know what we want and, in fact, what we need in relationship. So, at the time that we met this person, we were crazy about them. But maybe nine months later we learned a little more about ourselves and that additional knowledge helped clarify some things about ourselves that changed our perspective of the person we were with.
Most Helpful Girl
People are only loyal to their own priorities, their needs and wants. Over time their needs and wants can change, so their feelings change as well. So they just start to grow apart. That's why it's best to live in the moment of things, because no one can guarantee they'll never hurt you or leave you . That's a chance everyone takes when they fall in love
Relationships only stand a chance of surviving if both people make self-. sacrifices and compromises for each other. It's rare to find two people who are willing to do that for each other