My friend had this on/off thing with his ex. At one point, they seemed on the verge of getting back together but he chose someone else. Now they are no longer on speaking terms. It's the longest they've gone without taking, even though there doesn't seem to be any ill feelings. He's single again, and I noticed she commented on his Facebook status recently.
I've always had a crush on him. I just wonder if it's a lost cause. What do you think? Anyone been in a situation like this?
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No it will not work out in the end.! However, they will always be on/off friends.!... Its only because they are both immature or maybe its just HIM who's immature. Immaturity really screws up your chances of being with the girl/guy that's right for you!...If its an on/off relationship chances are there is SOME type of chemistry there, its something about the 2 of them together.
So lets look at the relationship from a mature standpoint. He only focuses on her, he doesn't care about trying other girls. And I'm blaming it all on him because it seems like HES the reason that they can't stay together properly. So until he matures and becomes a man instead of a boy they will just be friends. And he can screw all the girls he want until he's ready to settle down. That's all it basically is him not wanting to settle down. She's the type of girl that likes him and only him or wouldn't mind being with him, obviously because she kept getting back with him as well. Most girls are like this. However with guys its a different story.
And you say you've always had a crush on him. Let it go, let HIM go, rather.! You are remaining his friend in hopes of him possibly developing feelings for you. But if he hasn't by this point, those feelings will never come. It's only hurting you knowing that he doesn't want you but you want him. Its like a recovering druggy hanging out with a druggy, you'll be constantly reminded of the pain. Go find someone else. Hope it help!
- Rhaz xoxo2