Will No Contact Work in my Case?
What Girls Said 1
I'm sure the no contact thing will help you both yes. However, I don't think it'll help the relationship get back together, as that time spent apart made her realize her true feelings for you, which is better she did sooner than later.
As for the relationship in whole, I am sorry but it doesn't sound like it was very equal. Her lack of effort to plan things for you both, and her needing that attention and getting angry with you when you were going through something emotionally, that's not right. She should have been by your side, even if you didn't contact her she could have made the effort to contact you and help you through the depression.
I believe the no contact thing will be best. It'll help her move on and help you grow and give you time to work on finding that happiness in your life again. Depression can disappear for a while, but chances are it'll come back and reoccur in your life. We're all different, however getting help for depression is something you really should do.
Don't be concerned about someone who isn't in love with you. Instead focus your time on yourself, getting your mental and emotional health back to a healthy state and grow further as a person.
Let her go, and you move onward. That's the best advice I can give you.
I hope things work out for your behalf no matter what happens.
What Guys Said 1
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