I heard that some get angry from others telling them that they're afraid that their parents might get a divorce. They get mad at them cause they don't know their problem of having divorced parents. I'm just too afraid to speak up and ask for help.
When i I talk to my dad, telling him that I'm afraid of them getting divorced, he said something like this, "I would've divorced your momma a long time ago if it wasn't for you and your brother." My daddy really cares about my brother and I. He also cares for my momma.
My momma, she talks bad about my dad behind his back. She talks about him to everyone. Whether it be my aunt, or a random stranger. She's also working longer to 'stay out of the house'. She doesn't trust my daddy. She wants him to run by every purchase by her before he buys it. Easily said that she doesn't trust him.
Then there's my siblings. 1 brother and 1 sister. I'm not sure of how a divorce would effect my older sister. She might try to get my brother and I into her custody. My brother... he may take it hard, any 11 year old would. I just know he will cry. He's very attached to both of our parents.
Myself on the other hand, I'm just gonna be an emotional wreck. I'm pretty distant to everyone. Even my own family. I just don't like burdening people with my problems. I'm afraid that a divorce will be me even more closed off and put me into a deeper state of depression.
Anyways, the question, after getting to know my family, is how do I talk to people about all my fears and worry of my parents getting divorced?
I'm sorry that this is such a stupid question, also I'm sorry that I made you read all of this. If you want, you can call me names in the comments. I don't care if you do that I'm used to being called names.