The past is ugly and heavy, he brought a lot of it to the table that I only found out 3 years in- texting girls- sex texting-ignoring me for them.
Watching porn-not satisfying me but taking his fixes from me. In work- women staff messaging him- telling me he was with family but I soon found it was because he was blowing me off for other people to text.
After this things seemed to be going good and then it was I'm sick of this all the fighting, the past but he says it was his fault, we still talk like we are still together but if he burned his finger I'd text saying ill kiss it better and he'd reply with stop... But yet he can say he loves me. There is a lot of detail missing it is just to long. I've asked was there other person and he said no, I've said would you give it another shot he won't answer or he'd ring or text or see me and be upset, all I say is its your fault. I'm confused. I said I didn't want to be friends because it just wouldn't work that way.