we talked a lot about deep issues in our lives and im attached so its been really hard for me to move on after constantly wondering what i did wrong that would make him ghost me and it drives me almost insane with insecurity. i dont get that closure i need to move on. yesterday i met someome im interested in and so i decided to pursue it because i finally got enough self respect to move on and all of a sudden when i finally start liking this other guy, last night he decides to text me out of the blue. i left him on seen but despite the fact he's ignored me for 30 days and left me feeling insecure, i still feel guilty for not responding and i feel like ill cave in and end up falling into the same pattern. its like when i start swallowing my pride and decide to take it as a loss, he texts me.
please help. any advice. why is he doing this? this has happened before and im always in this same position where im about to dive right back in. I don't know if i should ignore, confront ot something.