I see all these posts about EXes... Why does my ex not like me? This and that about an ex... should we get back together...
An EX means.. in the past. In my life, after any break up, an EX is out of my mind. I move on almost immediately and never think of, try to contact, check up on, etc...
Breakups happen for a reason...
I'm not talking about someone who moved away... I'm talking about relationships that ended due to cheating, abuse, incompatibility and such...
Who CARES about an EX? Who cares about what an EX thinks of them?
Then "breaks"... what's that all about? all this is is an admission you can't commit in a relationship. Taking a vacation from a relationship isn't going to fly.
ALSO... getting back together after a breakup.. or chasing someone to get back together... sorry folks, the same issues are gonna be there.
This "closure" What's that about? No such thing... So what? It's over.. there is your closure.
Move on... where you found one guy/gal, there will always be more.
Your ex is just one in a line of exes you will have in your life. Get used to it.
Most Helpful Girl
I completely agree, but I want to maybe help you understand those people.
A lot of these people are looking at their relationship through rose tinted glasses. They remember the good, and not the bad. They forget that there was a reason why it didn't work out.
For some of them it is, Dear Ex; I don't think I deserve any better than you. There are many people who secretly sabotage themselves, they date guys that they know are douches or whom they know they're incompatible with. They go back to that guy who doesn't treat them well, to break up again, to get back again. Many times in these situations it's a confidence and self-esteem problem.1
Most Helpful Guy
I leave all thoughts of them behind. I'm busy working on someone else.1