Most Helpful Girl
Now if she is really still hanging out with exes that is a different story and certainly needs to be addressed. Maybe divorce if you haven't been married long
Most Helpful Guy
She is totally wrong. She is totally taking advantage of and being unfaithful to her husband and no "new, great, modern, let's-be-stupid-to-show-how-free-and-independent-we-are-as-females-and-cause-tons-of-unnecessary-trouble-feminist-sh**" twist changes that. It is one thing to hide her past. People make mistakes and tell lies. That is not fair to the virgin husband. But still meeting with the exes, that is totally unacceptable and he would need to tell her he knows, tell her he does not approve and will not stay married to her if she is going to betray their marriage. If he loves her and is understanding, and wants to make it work, he can draw a line in the sand and say, "No more!" That would be generous, and kind and the guy would be being so incredibly good and faithful, but if he says that he can't, he does not deserve flack for it. This guy needs to be assertive and take control.