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It doesn't matter what your ex needs or wants, right now, it's about you. What do you need. Do you need to get closure? Do you need more NC? Do you need to be able to yell at him and say, I can't believe you let some other girl's lies break us apart, why didn't you believe me, why didn't you have faith/trust in me? Do you need to have a little ritual, throw all the stuff he gave you away and then eat a tub of froyo? People need different things to get over their relationship. Sometimes all they need is NC and time, lots and lots of time. What do you think would help you, and then do that. If meeting him again doesn't help you get closure and makes it worse for you, don't do it, even if he wants to meet. Do what you need to get over him. Closure is really just, knowing that it's over and then moving on.