So a month and a half ago I ended my 2 year relationship with my ex fiancé. Now I'm going to preface this story with the fact that I'm 99% sure she's a narcissist. Anyways, in the beginning we had the relationship that made people want to puke, we were sweet and madly in love. Well I got out of the Marines and moved to TX to be with her, and that's when it all went down hill. I tried to hide my feelings so I wouldn't look weak, and I ended up becoming a huge liar. Over little things too. I've never cheated or anything, but I'd lie over stupid things like what I had for lunch. She manipulated the hell out of me accused me of everything she could, and one day after two years if had enough. I packed up and left. Well four days later after I got back to MN, she dropped the fact that she was with someone new and that she would not talk to me anymore, I was hurt so I said every mean thing I could think of. It was wrong and I apologized profusely, and I realized I wanted her back, so I started writing her letters almost daily, and I'm not gonna lie I blew up her phone. and she responded to nothing. I left my W2s at her apartment and I couldn't get ahold of her for anything. Well finally I told her mom if I don't get them I may have to call the postal inspector and that has a bunch of bad consequences, anyways I called her and she answered, and she said she hated me. Is there any fixing this? I mean I love this woman. And I would do anything for her, but how do you win someone back once they've rebounded and hate you? Is it possible?
Girls, I made every mistake in the book. And I still want her back, what do I do?
What Girls Said 3
It doesn't sound like a healthy relationship. If she doesn't want you back then even if you want to get back together there's not much you can do about it. Doesn't matter if it's a good or bad breakup, you need both people to want to get back together to make that work.
Why did you change your mind after you heard she was with someone new. You hurt, but why? You didn't hurt before them, you didn't want her back before then, you didn't change your mind before then? I'm not trying to be rude but, just make sure it's actually that you love her and changed your mind and not something like, your pride was hurt, or you became nostalgic for the good times.0
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well if you love her and you are 100% sure that you reallyyy want her back then you should try harder. actions;not words. first of all go see her in person, insist, it's way better than talking on the phone. do something romantic... and just show her how you really feel, explain to her in details why you love her and why you don't want to lose her. don't just give up..0
See if she will take you back0
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