I recently broke up with my boyfriend about 2 months ago. I have been with him for 4 years. We broke up recently because I found out that he was cheating on me with a girl that I thought for the longest time was one of our friends. I have moved away from the city I love to move in with my sister in the next city 2 hours away. I moved to get away from our memories together, the house we lived in had become unbearable and I left school. I love my ex still so much. I had always thought that we would get married after college and be with each other. I still talk to him here and there. I have a new job that keeps my mind occupied but at night is when I cry about him and think of all out wonderful memories together. My friends and family support me in getting me though this break up. Right now I just feel numb and really crappy. I have this other friend from my hometown that recently asked me out.. I think. Before my ex, we had 2 little dates and never really went further than that. I had to go back to college and he went to another college. I met my ex at college and been together for 4 years. This other guy has been a really good friend of mine over the years and have kept in touch with each other. I haven't told my friend from my hometown about my break up but told him I moved in with my sister. It's nice talking to him about everything else besides the reason why I moved.. he didn't ask why so I didn't explain why. Right now, he asked me to hangout. He's willing to come 4 hours to hangout with me. Like I want to hangout with him but it's not like I'm wanting to be in a relationship again or a fling. But I feel weird about it because I still feel like I'm with my ex and doing something behind his back. I know for sure my ex hasn't stopped talking to the girl he cheated on with me cuz I know they have 2 classes together. But I feel weird about this. Am I just overthinking this?
Am I leading my male friend on?
When you should break up? I've just come out of a long term relationship and I dunno what to do? If a guy beat me while I was pregnant, beat me after baby was born, cheated on me, and ghosted my baby and I to be with another woman? Girls, intellectual or athlete guy? How to get through the pain of being cheated and left?
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