Well I tend to have a problem with letting go of people... Once I'm dating a person I fall for them pretty fast and I can't get up after a break up... Now I'm in a very stupid situation where I'm friends with 2 of my ex boyfriends and im trying to to date this girl I really like... But I'm also trying to keep myself open for them if they decide they want to come back even though im sure that they won't... I'm just still hooked on them and I can't let go and it's giving me problems when it comes to meeting new people... So I don't know if this is a question or whatever but if you feel like it write down your thoughts below and tell me if you had similar problems
Letting go and moving on?
What Girls Said 1
It's hard, but I do it always, that I close the "doors" for them , you said you try to keep yourself open for them if they want to come back. I used to do it, but now I just close the door and after that I personally now there won't be any chance now and so there is no reason to holding on. But maybe it's just me :)1
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What Guys Said 2
Moving on is the most difficult part in your life. i can understand your situation. till date i couldnt move on of my past two relations , a best friend of mine is still hooked up with his ex for past 10 years... some people learn to move on and others don't... and yes this makes things very much complicated. sorry i dont have any solutions to it but i can just say i can relate myself somewhat.1
its nt as hard to let go ereally as it is to let go of the feelings you have which is a hard part of any situation. all you can really do is try to change your routine a bit. you know do things with the girl that had nothing to with the guys so you will not think on them where you get depressed or distracted.
like if you liked going to movies , do games or some other 3rd thing with
the guy , try to change it up and try doing things she likes and let her know some of the things you did with them on a date so she can help with avoiding the sore spots that remind you of them.
that kind of thing helps in any relationship.
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