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As a woman, I genuinely feel guilty about everything even buying junk food. (Guilty Pleasures) however, when it comes to losing an attraction for someone it is what it is. There are many reasons you do. For example : If the other person seems to be losing interest themselves.
I may take into consideration how they make me feel. Having an attraction goes many ways. It doesn't have to be physical. It could be you're attracted to their straightforwardness, the way they make you laugh, enjoying their company. Possibilities are endless. If then I lose that attraction for someone, it means I'm accepting of how they feel themselves. I'm accepting of who they are as a person, yet, it's clear that we desire more similar traits and interests, that one person may give and yet it doesn't cover everything. We're moving forward, and that's how it should be. There is no guilt or shame in that, and simply noticing who you are and what you'd like to currently focus on in your life, is far courageous than you could imagine.