Met a girl in class. She's very hot I ended up DMing her and I took her on a date and we hooked up the first night. She ends up being engaged to this guy and loves him but keeps having sex with me. 4 months later she wants to go back and keeps having sex with me instead. Now I just said I don't trust her and she block so me on everything and ignores me. What do I do? We agreed to be friends with benefits because the sex is absolutely amazing but now I'm blocked for going off on her for ignoring me 2 days.
I stole girl from her boyfriend of 5 years. She still love she him. But keeps comming back to me for sex?
What Girls Said 2
i say ditch her. Sex is easy enough to find- but just think about the dude on the other side of the situation. Do you think he knows that she's two-timing him? If i were you, i would have stopped messing with her once i found out about her "love". She doesn't seem like she knows what she wants, and being involved with someone like that can be seriously draining, constantly leaving you wondering where you stand. I dont think she's worth your time. Respect yourself and that poor other guy and leave this cheater behind.1
What Guys Said 1
Ditch her. If I understand this correctly, you were her side guy from her boyfriend of 5 years.
Now let's ignore morals.
I'm going to assume sex between her and her boyfriend is fantastic, because they've had the time to really figure out what works and what doesn't, and can assume she was having sex with you for 'variety'.
we can also assume that the majority of what she's told you, in any conversation, is mostly a lie, or filtered at least so she doesn't get caught within a week, or can't get busted by you if she screws you over.
It sounds like you knew all of this, but decided to still go off at her for ignoring you for two days...
What did you expect being the side person was?
Getting upset that you didn't get enough attention for two days? If she was with her partner through that time, she would be expecting you to be silent until she wants you again, so that's plenty of reason for her to cut you off completely.
You don't need someone like that in your life.
She doesn't need someone like you in her life.
Most likely, she's gotten bored and found someone else to fulfill her need for different bodies than her partners.
Just don't go for people who are in a relationship, it's dirty, cowardly and very low. The only person of worth would be the victim.2
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