Problem is, I know she is seeing another guy who she claims is a friend. She's known him way longer than me so I know I was the new guy but it still bothered me. I've read messages from him on her phone asking if she wanted to shower with him and she agreed including a lot of other things. She refused to spend the night at my place because she promised him she'd hang out with him later that evening.
Just this past week though things changed. She still initiated things but she bailed twice on me in a row and once we finally hung out she was completely distant and quiet. Didn't even want to hug me or initiate physical contact and asked me if she wanted to go climbing with her and the other guy (which was changing our original plans)
So right then and there I snapped out of jealousy. I told her that I feel like the more hung out with her, the more it's hard to accept that she doesn't want a relationship. That I my emotions can't handle her being hot and cold like this. I also told her I feel like we should stop seeing each other because I feel like we're not looking for the same thing and that I feel like I was being mislead by her behavior. Without calling her on it, I told her I feel like someone else is in the picture as well which she denied and told me I'm the only one she's seeing. She didn't oppose to anything and she kept with that she doesn't want a relationship. she ended up crying at the end which made me question what I did was the smart choice. It's been two days since and we haven't talked.
Why did she cry? Did I make the right decision?