by freaking nice i mean, he does small things like buying stuff i like when we meet up. every morning i have school at 8:30 so i gotta leave home at 7:30. he wakes up at 6am, takes an hour to travel by bus to my house, send me to school, then take a bus back home that takes 1 and a half hour. in the afternoon, he does the same thing and brings me home from school. but he is constantly too close to girls. once, he was on call with a girl for I don't know how many days (around a month or more?) straight. they called daily. and he even lied to me and said he was going to sleep when instead he called her. we fought, they broke off all contact, he apologized and said he won't lie again. this time it happened again. he has been talking to this girl on the phone for 2 days, first day 6pm to 4am, second day, 12pm to 5pm. the reason why 2 days ONLY is because i found out today on the 2nd day. and they only started talking again 2 days ago (they are old friends). the thing is they talk for SO LONG and never did he consider how i would feel if my boyfriend talked on the phone this long to another girl. tbh i already broke up with him bcos i was so annoyed that he doesn't seem to care about my feelings. but is my decision wrong? should i get him back?
- Yes, you deserve better.Vote A
- No, give him another chance.Vote B
Most Helpful Guy
I think you may patch up things and just be his friend, and find why he prefers to the other girl.. after all he is your good friend, and good friends can act as a mirror to us... without knowing you or him it is not possible to say you certainly deserve better, but probably you do deserve better! so keep friendship with him, at the same time it is of know harm if you mix up with others.. ;-)0
Most Helpful Girl
I think he is a nice guy and he seems to really be in love with you. I talking to these girls because he feel lonely because you might be busy a lot. If you try to talk to him more maybe he will stop talking to them. Also if they are just talking as friends and not flirting then its ok, would be the same as him to a guy0