so my bf's old friend came back after very long and they decided to catch up so they talked on the phone. on day 1 when she's back, they were on a call for 10 HOURS and on day 2, 5 hours. i found out on day 2 and was REALLY ANGRY not because he might be firting and up to something or anything but bcos he didn't consider my feelings and went to talk to another girl for 10 hours? when i confronted him he said he's sorry he got carried away because an old friend came back. and he will talk to her less if thats what i want. but im really annoyef with the fact that he doesn't put me first and thinks about my feeling as his girlfriend. so angrily, i initiated a break up. should i have accepted his apology and forgive him or did i make the right choice?
- Break up with him immediately.Vote A
- Confront him and forgive him if he apologizes and realize his mistakeVote B
Most Helpful Guy
I mean, I think you over reacted, but that me. If it had been going on for a week I can totally see your response being valid, but two days? Your his girlfriend, so you don't have to control every aspect of his life.0
Most Helpful Girl
So personally, i think its wrong of you to be annoyed he was talking to a friend even if its a girl ( ivr been through this a couple times where a great guy friend of mine gets a girlfriend and she required him to not talk or hang out with me any more and i lost that friendship ) it hurts.. now even that said. . there are fine lines. 10 hours... thats a bit much it could be harmless but thats a lot... anyways i would respect that he had a friend who is a girl that he knew before u and dont tell him they can't be friends but you should calmly explain that 10 or 5 hours on the phone with another girl is reason to alarm you as his sweatheart. I think also it just depends on what kind of guy he is to say whether or not id be mad or not.0