When is it okay to ghost someone? Is it better then letting them down. A guy who works with the company I work for came in and I guess he saw me and asked a coworker to give me his number since he doesn't come in often. I stupidly texted him , and I really don't want anything to do with a guy , I don't wanna go out with him or anything like that. Should I ghost him or just tell him
Most Helpful Guy
It's okay to ghost someone if you feel that's what you want to do, especially when you barely know them anyway. You are not obliged to speak to or remain in contact with anyone that you don't want. It becomes a bit more of a shitty thing to do when you know the person well, but still it's up to you. If you are struggling with your conscience then just keep any communication civil and polite and limit it. Don't reply quickly and when you do reply just reply with very sterile and short answers. He'll probably get the hint.0
Most Helpful Girl
Whoa whoa whoa—your COWORKER gave out your number? That's not respectful, or their place. You shouldn't feel obligated to talk to this person at all.
You have every right to ghost them. But if you want to be forthright, just tell them you're disinterested and that they should have asked for your permission before giving out your number 😕1
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