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right. thats why it's called rebound sex, it's not supposed to feel GOOD0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
right. thats why it's called rebound sex, it's not supposed to feel GOOD
I did that before by accident. I thought I had moved on and then only when things got heated up, I found myself comparing the girl to my ex and felt guilty about it. Worse, afterwards, I find myself missing my ex more than ever, like it reset some of my progress in terms of getting over her.
Some people talk about rebounds working like a charm. I don't think they work so well in cases where you started really falling madly for your ex and thought of him/her as "the one". In that case your mind makes him/her the idea of what is an "ideal" partner, and everyone will end up seeming worse and lacking since they're not your ex.
For me it helped me to move on to stop focusing on girls for a while and just focus on interests and friends: putting yourself out there and trying to find things to get excited about doing every day when you wake up. At one point you might find yourself no longer thinking about your ex at all, even when you're alone and idle, and that's when you have truly moved on.
My most recent ex, not in the slightest way possible. However, one of my ex's I do miss terribly and anything that we use to do together reminds me of her and it sucks.
You obviously had a great loving and satisfying sexual relationship with your ex.
Losing a great partner is like suffering the loss of a loved one, you are grieving as if that person was deceased.
To you, they are no longer in your life, and you will be grieving, it will take time, maybe up to two years to get over a lost relationship that was really good!
Any attempt to move on to a sexual relationship with others will mean you compare, whether you intend to or not.
A great relationship is hard to replace, but given time, the memories will fade, and you will move on!
Don't have sex outside of marriage.
tbh, it makes matters worse
I personally refuse to have rebound sec because i know that you have to get over and move on before you can become intomate with someone else even if its just a service call. We aren't made like men so thats why it feels different for us. After a break up with someone i was with for 6.5 years i went two years before doing anything with anyone at all so i know i was ready. Im glad i did it that way.
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