me and my girlfreind broke up recently but I hate being alone. does that make me a bad person for trying to get another girlfriend for companionship and hopefully a future?
Most Helpful Girl
No. You're normal. But be careful about using a new relationship to make you feel better. Make sure you are over your ex. You may think it doesn't matter if you still have feelings for her but believe me, we females have a six sense about that stuff. If you have hidden feelings for her we'll sniff them out. I personally would give it a bit of time. If you don't deal with your shit from the previous one you will get into a vicious cycle of going from relationship to relationship and never working on your problems.0
Most Helpful Guy
Its important to give some time after the break up. Even psychology says.
I have been in 3 relationships. After the 1st break up I jumbed immediately on another girl and then also broke up with her. Then got so much frustration and got irritated. Then my counselor suggested me to spend some time with your old friends, being near to the nature, visiting new places. So now after 2 years I'm involved in other relationship and feeing like its very strong and feeling very positive.0