Will I ever hear from my ex girlfriend & best friend who suffers from bpd a personality disorder ?

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Break Up & Divorce

if you want details on what happened between us just ask its very long.

she been with the new guy for a little over 2 years and we dated for 9 months but were friends for 7 years. i haven't spoken to my ex at all for 19 months but when her i visit her job she will not stop staring at me. in fact, i have had a cashier tell me to turn around and i did which she was staring right at me. i have even had a few friends ask if i knew her that's how hard she stares.
do you think there is any chance in hell of us being friends agin>

Will I ever hear from my ex girlfriend & best friend who suffers from bpd a personality disorder ?

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Leandri
mho 14%

Yeah maybe
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- Leandri
  
  Yes...
  
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- Asker
  
  You don't have to if you don't want too its long
  
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- Leandri
  
  It is fine I have time
  
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- Asker
  
  Sorry for any errors. ok so here is what happened.
  her parents forced us to break up and things slowly break down since we won't able to Communication, thanks to her parents putting on a lot of pressure on her which she couldn't handle. every time we would work things out or come close to her or mom would put on more pressure, screaming at her every time we talked or forced her to block me on Skype... pretty much anything to make it hard on us.
  about three months later she ended up having a mental breakdown in college and her close friend nick happened to be there for her doing this time. at this point she wanted her life to be normal again so she gave into her parent's demands and ended up trying to date other people to get over me since she couldn't eat & barely sleep. i was cool with this at the time and just wanted to save our 7-year friendship. so she ended up dating our mutual online friend Chris who had turned out had a crush on Amy and was bad mouthing me throughout our
  
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  our break up. she dated him for about 3 weeks then ended up cheating on him with her current boyfriend the guy who help her out when she had her mental breakdown in college.
  so during her new relationship with nick she kept telling me things like nick treats me badly, doesn't respect me and i feel like a booty call with him since he only messages me for roleplay sex... go ahead in have yourself a big laugh its funny. i still did have feelings for my ex girlfriend at the time but just push them aside, i known if i got involved it would only push her away. my ex-was a virgin at the time and we had planned to wait for sex till we got married. now here where things get even more fucked up.
  a few weeks later my baby sister was diagnosed with cancer and almost died 3 times throughout her treatments. i couldn't handle all this at once i was taken care of my sister who couldn't do anything by herself, walk shit use the bathroom own her own, take a shower on her own or do any for herself.
  
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- Leandri
  
  I am sorry to hear about your sister.
  Well your ex does sound confused though. But you will hear from her again, she will miss you
  
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- Asker
  
  Thank you or your input it only see my ex when it go shopojng at her job she stares atme but never says a word.
  
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- Leandri
  
  Maybe she is building up courage
  
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- Asker
  
  I don't know 1 day ill find out having seen her in awhile
  
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randomhobo
mho 14%

Probably not no, i've got bpd and the moment i move onto a new person or interest i cut contacts with the old people. Not even sure why, i just do it.
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  Am the only ex so far she hasn't spoken to too
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