- it's complicated
Most Helpful Guy
It's bad for both genders here is why. For the man it is like asking someone to take a demotion in a company but ask him to occasionally do the same thing and expecting him to be happy with this demotion and pay cut and for a girl it is like dropping all the charges in court, she could have been at fault for everything but she thinks it wasn't that bad since you are willing to be friends. I hate to be an asshole here but with girls you have to hold them accountable for these things for a long time before you think about mending the fences
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Most Helpful Girl
No. I always cut contact with exes. I have no need to have them in my life. That just complicates future relationships, and it brings too much drama into your life.