He broke up with me and went back with his on again off again ex girlfriend and he's been with her ever since, and I always get sad and depressed over him and think about him late at night all depressed and I feel like killing myself over him. Also, I think and feel like I can and will never find anyone better than him, like I'll never find my true love, etc. And sometimes I cry over him. I feel like I will never get over him too.
Most Helpful Guy
People might say, give some time and stuff like that. But if you sit around waiting for yourself to move on, you'll just end up being more heart broken. My advice, get yourself busy. Go out, talk to strangers, make some new friends, travel the world. You got a very small life. Enjoy it instead of wasting time, crying over other people. I would like to quote a sentence that I saw on some random guy's t-shirt a few years back:
"Don't take life too seriously. Nobody gets out alive anyway!"
And my life was never the same since that day. :)0
Most Helpful Girl
Believe me you WILL get over him. Take it from a personal experience. I have had 3 guys in my life. The second guy used me as a rebound and messed me up emotionally with his lies and I too, wanted to kill myself.
I took a day off work to dwell, and let it all out. Next day I went back to work and focused my energy on that. I booked myself a holiday. I thought too that I wouldn't meet anybody after him, but less than a year later I met someone (we are no longer together) BUT he was better looking, and kind (for a while lol). Moral of the story, even though it didn't work out with the third guy for me, I KNOW there is a guy out there who does possess all the qualities I am looking for. In the meantime, focus on urself Hun.
Tbh, this guy won't be somebody u forget completely as it's an experience u faced, view it as a lesson - but the pain will become less and less as days go by and eventually he'll just be a memory and someone that u won't even care about. Time is the healer of all my love.0