I just wonder how he even feels about me. For the first few months he's treating me like I'm the best thing that's ever happened to him, and when I left him the first time he got really depressed and wrote sad songs about me. He even made references to me being "his" and being in love with me.
I recently sent him a loving video about him and us, and it was really sweet. But then he didn't talk to me much after that, and I messaged him explaining I feel neglected and that I felt I did more for him than he did for me... and stuff like that.
He never replied, and I checked and saw he liked other girls' pictures on instagram. I don't know why he's being this way but I guess he's just over me for some weird reason, though I love him so deeply and it hurts to let him go.
What should I do?😥 We had such a great bond and such incredible chemistry and the thought of him loving another girl would just hurt me inside. I just can't get past this... please help.
Most Helpful Guy
I remember asking you one of your questions before, from my perspective if I was in his shoes, which you kind of know i am. At the moment 5 months later, I am completely stuck, I still deeply love her but she hates me, everyone says move on and get over her. I do see some girls I am attracted too, but it just makes me feel guilty. I don't want to be alone, but I don't want to be with anyone else but her. He is probably at a point where he wants to fill the void that was left when you guys broke up, and at some point it doesn't really matter who it is. To me I want the void to be filled but at the same time I don't want anyone but her to fill it. It is very frustrating and lonely feeling.0
Most Helpful Girl
Your overthinking, he might not like the girls. Also just give him a bit of time and then talk to him. Or just wait for him to message you. If you're jealous just distract yourself by watching movies or videos. Dont think too much about it. Hope this helped a little 😊3