I was in a relationship with someone who was so afraid of losing me that she didn't let me keep contact with any of my ex or female friends. Sometimes she freaked out, broke up and came back after i assured her. I did everything to make her feel that she was the only one but still ended up not talking to me fearing that i was cheating. Thats how it ended. Now I feel bad and rejected. Was it my fault? Is there anything wrong with me?
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Well that is insecure on her part. It could just be she is young and somewhat inexperienced and can't quite deal with a boyfriend talking to an ex. Even older more experienced women can have issues with it but they normally don't freak out or break up with guys over it. Well if that all it was, was keeping in contact with ex's and nothing more, I don't think you did anything wrong. If she wants to talk to you about it more I'd say gladly discuss it more with her. It might help her in her personal growth.1