Am i stupid to think he's actually in need?
Most Helpful Guy
He might be in need. But do you want to be stuck in the position to care for him and yourself? I know its not good to say this but half the world is striggling. If you go back and help him, you'll be helping him for a much longer time and it won't be just a one time thing. He'll know he has a source to help out whenever he needs help and you'll be back tl where you were. Again, i know its wrong but dont get stuck in the position you got out of and go through all that again. If you can go through the pain of being brought down, its your choice but id say i couldnt if it were up to me. and id feel bad but id know i wouldn't get stuck again
Most Helpful Girl
under no circumstances should you feel obliged to give him any help financially, he should be ashamed of himself for asking, just don't reply