If you were together with someone for a year and had no idea that person was cheating on you, would you want someone, like a friend, to tell you or would you rather they not tell you?
I am trying to figure out if I should tell my guy friend that his girlfriend is cheating. I know first hand she is cheating because I am friends with her too. I care about my friend and I don't want to see him waste his time.
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I would want to know, ofcourse--i don't want to be made a fool of especially for a long time.
I would suggest you tell the girl that you know and that not only is she hurting him but you as their friend is in a akward position because you feel that you need to be truthful to him
and than tell her that she needs to be the one to tell him, because if she doesn't you will,
Sometimes I think it's none of my buiseness and I should keep to myself and I don;t like to get involved into people personal lives, but how can I pretend that nothing is going when I consciously know that someone is hurting, disrespecting and making a joke of one of my friends --but only would I get invloved if this person being cheated on is a good friedn who I really care about--
so talk to her and if the guy means a lot to you as a friend than tell her she has to be honest with him--at least try this and let her know that you will.--as long as she is aware of what you want to do.
this is really a tough one,but if the guy was a really good friend of mine I would tell him if she wasn't willing to-- it's importaant--the lie would eat me alive1