Most Helpful Guy
You're probably done. Five kids... ugh. No. You may find a few guys willing to pump & dump you, but is that what you really want? More importantly, is that what you want to show your kids?
Best thing you can do is just forget about dating and relationshits and concentrate on making sure your kids don't grow into criminalistic little shitheads.
Most Helpful Girl
Use this separation period as a time to reflect on yourself and make changes where need to be. It isn't a matter of if your love life opportunities are gone. It is a matter of figuring out what role you played in your relationship failing and how you can become a stronger, better person who doesn't feel the need to be in a relationship. This kind of freedom is empowering and wholesome. But dating right now will be nothing more than a rebound.