when you just broke up with your ex bc he/she dumped your or whatever, do you think that your ex need to know how broken u are? or is that really stupid. my friends said that he doesn't need to know how sad and broken i am. That's why i only post nice and fun things on social media, but bc of that i seem the person who is very happy and doesn't care about the breakup at all which is TOTALLY NOT the case. I am worried that my ex would think that. but i really want to let him know how much he hurted me.. why? because to be honest i really want him feel terrible and regret by dumping me.. i really want to say to him "i hope that in the future no one will hurt you like you did to me'..
but the other side it sounds so pathetic.. and he could think 'hm okay well u are really pathetic am glad that i broke up with you'..
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No. They are not a part of your life anymore and it's not their responsibility to deal with your feelings. You need to work on getting over the relationship yourself. Spending time and energy lamenting publicly is not really going to help you. Work on figuring out why it didn't work and what you can try to do better next time.
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