Most Helpful Guy
I think you need to tread carefully. I don't know why he thinks he gets to decide when he wants to come back, although he could also be dealing with things on his end too. Regardless of whatever his reasons are, I think you should just be cautious because he has the potential to do serious harm to you, maybe not physically but emotionally and mentally - and physically definitely isn't the worst. You should do your best to move on. People come and go in life and if he couldn't stand by you then that's fine, find someone who can.
Most Helpful Girl
I wouldn't take his butt back at all learn to live without him