If someone asked me how I feel I would have no idea what to say, I feel fine but for the chest pain and random nostalgic moments which are really brief. I have been with someone previously, whom I claimed to love and when they left I just felt destroyed for months and even now after this break up, I thought about my previous ex and not the one I just left. Was this love and it turned into hate, was it lust, if so then why is there random physical pain? I have been dating him for a year.
I am just wondering if anyone experienced anything similar.
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It seems that the pain of the previous relationship is ongoing with you until now.
sometimes, you just have to forgive and forget and learn from what happened.
you don't have to punish and blame yourself for someone left a space in your life... you should invest in that space to know that your previous ex gave you a lesson, and the current ex gave you a chance to look at yourself differently.
both ex's is a chapter in your life, not your life’s entire story.
life becomes easier when you accept the apology you never got... don't be too hard on yourself, forgive and forget.