Most Helpful Guy
I think everyone has and for the most part, I think that everyone has the same story. At a very young age you fell in love, the other person moved on, and not only were you really sad, but you were almost obsessed at some points. Then about three months later, one day you realize that you no longer care. All of the tears, the declarations that you'd never feel this way again, the way you bored your friends over talking about him/her nonstop, and the thoughts that it would be unbearable to be without him/her -- they're just gone. You remember feeling that way, but you don't remember what it actually feels like because you're just over it.
I would say this though -- it only happened once to me and I figure that that's how it works with most people. Because only the first time do you allow yourself to be swept away or be caught up in the emotions. After that, you're too seasoned, too smart, too pragmatic and in a way, it's sort of sad because I think it would be neat to be able to fall for someone like that again. Unfortunately, that would require me being the jackass that I was at 17 and in reality, I like myself too much to want to go back to that.
Most Helpful Girl
I went absolutely insane, lol. He ended things through text, I begged for him to come meet in person so we could talk things out ( in reality, I was filled with rage and wanted to beat his ass) I was absolutely ready to assault him lol thank God my mom talked me out of it. I stalked him on social media for a minute. He came crawling back, I hated him. We became civil after awhile but things never were the same. He's a sicko, how can you hurt someone the way he hurt me and come back? He said he missed me, loved me, didn't wanna lose me, wanted me in his life, etc. All things aside I did love him and I'm sure he loved me in his own way but as of right now we dont communicate. He comes back every now and then to check up, I'm not sure why he does it. I got over things after about 6 months. But because we had contact on and off, it slowed the moving on process down so I hurt myself more in the end by talking to him. My advice to anyone would be no matter how much it hurts, CUT THEM OFF!!!