Most Helpful Guy
It's called HYPERGAMY
Yes, you married far too young. Your generation just does not get it when we tell them this. They just think we're full of shit.
I wish my kid would listen. He's going to do the very same thing. :(
Most Helpful Girl
I don't think you're a sociopath. I think you've been denying your true feelings for so long and putting up a front for those closest too you and you're relived to to aknowledge and start handling your true feelings (Kinda like a dam bursting and a relief of pressure). You mentioned that the 2 of you still get along great so I think that the 2 of you should try counciling if he's really hurt and I think that you should try to rekindle the relationship or whatever. A lot of married couples can barely stand each other but the fact that you still care deeply about him despite some of his not so ideal tendencies is sign that you 2 still have a chance in my opinion.